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My Darling Sophie Lu,
It's been three whole years since the most magical, wonderful day of my life- the day you were finally placed in my arms. You had been living and growing in my heart for quite some time, but actually having you in my arms and knowing that it was forever felt so perfect and so very amazing. You were so calm and snuggly and loving with me from the very start. Just as I had already known your precious soul, you somehow knew mine and you knew I was your Mommy. Though I had loved you from afar, I had missed holding you and kissing you for your first 13 months; so I held you close, and I never let you go. I carried you everywhere and didn't let anyone else ever hold you (except Daddy after a few days & even then, not for very long). You slept right between us, and I remember Daddy and I looking at your sweet angel face, listening to you breathe, and watching you sleep. We still do that, you know... and we still smile at each other the same way we did those first few nights with you. We realize that you are such a miracle- our beautiful gift- our very first child together. You have brought so much love and laughter to our lives. We love you so much, sweet Sophie Lu; and we thank God and all of the angels in heaven for the blessing of your love.
You have grown and experienced so much in our third year together! And you've managed to make us laugh every step of the way. Here are just a few special memories that come to mind:
* You still wake me up with kisses, but this year you added your "sunshine face" (the biggest sweet morning smile ever). You greet each day with such wonder and excitement, and you love it when I say, "Good morning, Sunshine!" Sometimes I have to try to coax you to go back to sleep though- because it's too early. To that, you always reply, "But Mommy, listen... the birdies are awake, so it's time to wake up!"
* Sometimes after we wake up and shnug shnug (snuggle) in bed for a while, we play the "favorites game". You always start with, "Mommy, what was your favorite float in the New Year's Parade? And then you proceed to tell me your favorite, Daddy's favorite, and even Ollie's favorite. Then we move on to other kinds of favorites- I think you could play that game all day long!
* Every night, you are still the first to find the moon. You love looking at the moon, and Daddy and I tell you how we longingly looked at the moon each night while we waited for you. We always felt you were looking at the same moon, and now we are sure that you were...
* One night, none of us could find the moon. It was very dark and cloudy, but we did manage to find one star. You were so sad you couldn't say goodnight to the moon, so we showed you how to wish upon a star. This was your wish... "I wish my moon would come back." And the next night it did.
* You started pre-school, and you love it! You learned how to write your name many months ago, and now you can spell and read several words. You only go two mornings a week, but I miss you like crazy when we are apart. You tell me that you missed me each school day too. Picking you up is so exciting though- because when you first see me, your face lights up, you say, "Mommyyyyy!!!!!" and you run into my arms. That's the best feeling ever!
* You also started ballet! You love to dance, and we all love watching you! Your favorite part of ballet class is when you get to dance "Madame Butterfly". You flutter all around the room with a huge smile on your face (I always peek through the glass door to watch you)!
* While your sentence structure can still be a little baby-like (so cute), you started using very sophisticated words for a 3 year old, and your vocabulary seems to grow each day. When you finish eating a popsicle, you will say how "refreshing" it was. And when you are reading a book or working on an art project, you will insist that we all quiet down because you are busy "concentrating". When you get a new toy, you politely ask Daddy to "assemble" it for you, and when you hear thunder, you will tell us how the clouds are making a lot of "commotion". You love to use the word "distinguished", and you make me laugh when you use the phrase "I think not"! You are always trying to learn the meanings of new words- you recently asked me to explain the definitions for "sentimental" and "intuition". But you still have your own cute names for certain things, and I love that. Some of my favorites are "frigifrador" for refrigerator and "soaped" for soaked, "TD" for TV, and "DDD" for DVD. Oh, and I love how you call hula hoops "hooly hoops"!
* You've inspired me with your positive outlook on life. When presented with a broken popsicle, you said, "Look, Mama! Two popsicles!" And once you made a drawing of lots of tiny sad faces. When I asked you why you made all the faces frowning, you said, "It's upside-down day, Mommy... turn the paper around and you will see all the faces smiling at you!"
* You love putting coins in your piggy bank and your kitty bank. Recently, you were presented with a handful of coins and asked to choose some for your piggy bank. You kept choosing pennies. I tried to explain that the nickels and dimes were worth more, but you looked up at me and said, "Yes, Mommy, but pennies are lucky!"
* You have developed an appreciation for magic, and you love doing magic tricks. You use a magic wand sometimes, but you never say "Abra Cadabra". You say, "Moonakiss Joonakiss!"
* You have become very thoughtful- always asking, "How was your shower, Mama?", "How was your meeting, Daddy?", or "How was your nap, Ollie?" You are so sweet that way.
*You have also become a bit mischievous! I sometimes catch you sneaking out of the pantry with something hidden behind your back. When I catch you with the bag of marshmallows at breakfast time, you always explain, "But, Mommy, I had to follow my heart!" It's funny how your heart always leads you to marshmallows! lol
* When I talk to you about going to the dentist, you sweetly say, "Mommy, I like to go to the beauty salon better, okay?"
* You love to find dandelions to blow the seeds from and make wishes on. You almost always wish to make a chocolate cake or bake cookies with Mommy. Recently, though, you wished that you could go trick-or-treating with your baby sister. Then you told us how she would be too little to eat her candy, but that you would kindly eat it for her.
* You love to cook with Mommy or Daddy. You call yourself a "good cooker" or a "helper chef" or sometimes a "good cheffer". :) You are very good at helping Daddy make omelettes. You crack the eggs perfectly and you love to sample all the other ingredients. And when you bake goodies or make dinner with Mommy, you can always recall and recite every single ingredient.
* Somehow you learned the tune to "Here Comes the Bride". You take a pail of rocks and dirt and skip through the yard sprinkling it like a flower girl would. The interesting part is the words you sing... "Here comes the bride... big, fat, and wide. Here comes the groom, dirty as a broom!" Now how did you ever come up with that? Funny girl!
* Unlike most other children, when presented with choices A and B, you always choose your own C. You are quite the negotiator!
* You are also very good at sharing- especially with your brother Ollie. After you finish your popsicle, you always insist on sharing the rest of Ollie's popsicle with him!
* Daddy was in the yard hedging one day, and you asked him what he was doing. He told you he was "giving the bushes a trim", and you said, "Lucky bushes!" We curiously asked why you would say they were lucky, and you said, "Because now they are going to get a balloon!"
* You love holidays and are always asking me which holiday comes next and which one comes after that. You are already planning your Halloween costume and looking forward to baking heart-shaped pink frosted cookies for Valentine's day.
* You frequently tell me how you love me because I give you "soft love". When I ask you what that means, you say, "Soft love- not like hard love". When I ask what "hard love" is, you say "Hard like rocks, Mommy. Hard and soft are opposites- you know!"
* When I say, "Hi Baby-love", you say, "Hi Mama-love!" Then I say, "Hi Baby-Lu," and you say, "Hi Mama-Lu!" And we go on and on- both of us giggling the whole time.
I could go on and on with examples of how sweet, funny, and enchanting you are, Sophie Lu! I just never want to forget a single moment of our precious time together. You are growing up so quickly- too quickly. But just like you always remind me, you will always be Mommy's baby girl- my very first baby. And very soon, you will have a baby sister of your own. You can't wait to help me take care of her, and I know that she will look up to you and love you very much.
Happy three glorious years together, my beautiful beautiful child~
I love you always and forever...
Love, Mommy
xoxoxo

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52 comments:
what a beautiful post... thank you so much for sharing your happy moments!
Wow! I can totally feel the love between you and Sophie. All your post are full of love to you children. Stand proud!
P.S I would love to see more videos with Sophie Lu and Ollie.
Happy anniversary, Sophie Lu! Happy anniversary to you all.
What a wonderful note to your sweet daughter. Happy anniversary Sophie Lu!!
Too beautiful, too sweet, too precious, too special for mere words.... so happy for you and your precious little miracle Sophie Lu....
Happy 3 years home in your Mama's arms sweet girl...
The pictures are breathtaking....
such a heartfelt post. thanks you for sharing with us.
That was so touching, there is nothing like the love between a mother and daughter. Thanks for sharing!!
What a beautiful post, it's great to see and read about what Sophie's up to. Lots of love from Amy and Mary!
i like #3 the most-- what vibrant colors you get with your camera!!
emily
OMG - has it really been that long! Doesn't it seem like yesterday :D She is beautiful and I love how you describe your life together! Beautiful!
Ladybug hugs,
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That was beautiful..
Thank you so much for sharing that with us and her pictures are goergous as ever..
SHe is a beautiful child for sure!!
Ahh, too, too sweet! Your brought a tear to my eye and a lump to my throat. Shana, you have such a way with words. I see some of these things in my own daughter, though she is about a year younger.
Congratulations on your third year with Sophie Lu!
Happy anniversary to Sophie Lu and family! Thank you for letting us watch the love in your family. I know you and Michael are blessed to have your children, but Sophie & Ollie are VERY blessed to have you for parents! By the way, I love that Sophie loves to share...Ollie's popsicle. Too funny!!
Troy, OH
Beautiful post for a beautiful girl from her beautiful mommy. Just made my heart melt!
Happy Anniversery Sophie Lu - times flies! hey grow and change so very fast - love the pics - did your camera do the coloring - or did you apply a special effect - like lite box to the pics? They are great - as were the b/w ones!
Best wishes for the kitten and the family!
carol in FL
Your post brought tears to my eyes. I love that you are documenting all these great moments with your sweet girl, and that you are willing to share them with all of us (especially us moms "in waiting").
Love photo #11. Just gorgeous - and Sophie's smile is infectious.
I love, love, love this little letter to Sophie! Oh my goodness - what a little sweetheart! It's so funny what she comes up with - clearly a very intelligent little girl! Happy three year anniversary!
That was beautiful! Put the biggest smile on my face seeing it and reading about all the little things Sophie does. She definately has some amazing parents who are raising her to be an amazing little person. Thank you for sharing.
Michelle-Canada
p.s I love the colours on those pictures, so bright and vibrant! They are all amazing as usual, how do you chose which are the best!?
Besides the wonderful words, the truly beautiful model, your photography is exquisite! You should do it for a living - really! Happy 3rd anniversary Sophie and (growing) family!
Janet
From your VDM int'l adoption class
Mom to Veronica
Happy 3rd Anniversary to Sophie Lu and both her parents!!
What a beautiful post. Sophie seems like such a sweet and funny little girl.
My siblings, friends and I used to sing those same words to "Here Comes The Bride." Do you think Sophie learned the words from a pre-school friend? I think those lyrics have been around for a long time. :)
Oh Shana, that made me cry! What a beautiful, heartfelt letter to your first baby girl.
Sophie Lu is definitely wise beyond her years, its almost like she knows something we don't. Shes such a precious baby girl!
Yes...wow...pictures,words...precious!:))
Nr 6 picture...THE BEST:))
Wow Shana, I am so moved by this beautiful post and tribute to your daughter. And being a moon girl myself (like, still to this day at 40 years of age), I SO loved her first wish on a star! I feel like I got to know her all over again in this post.
And, wow, the photos are stunning!
Happy 3 years as a family!
What a beautiful post! It was a treat not only to read of your first moments with Sophie Lu but of the wonderful fun your share together now! What precious memories you have recorded here to enjoy for years to come.
Sophie Lu is an amazing little girl and such a great big sister to Ollie! I know that Kitten will be blessed to have her as a big sister too!
Catherine
PS - My niece who is now 9yo still loves to watch Sophie Lu's cooking video. It's probably her favourite YouTube video of all time!
Wow! This post is amazing! I especially like when you quote her... so cute!
Happy 3 year anniversary ;o)
What a beautiful testament to the beautiful love you have for your baby girl. She truly is a beautiful child and the love you have for her just shines through the screen. Thank you for sharing your life's journey with us. One of these days I will meet you!
Beautiful post, beautiful girl, beautiful pictures!!
Enchanting photos! Beautiful letter! Happy three year anniversary Sophie Lu!
This is one of the most beautiful posts. You and your family are truly blessed. :)
Beautiful words that truly indeed are from your heart!! Great pictures.
Wow... tears are falling... what a beautiful post. I don't think any mommy in the world can love their little one quite like you love your little Sophie Lu. What a little ray of sunshine she is!! Happy three years with your precious angel!
Happy Anniversary! So happy to see and hear how much love and happiness there is between you, your husband, and your children. The photos (and post) are so beautiful - you have a great eye and an adorable subject - how do you choose which photos to frame when there are so many good ones? Wendy
Love this.
Happy, happy day to you all.
Also, we have a little "cheffer" in our house too! :)
I loved reading each of the little things adorable Sophie Lu does. She has such a fabulous personality! It is great to record all of these little memories...after 3 kids...sometimes you begin to forget the little things--even though you think you never will:(
Hugs,
Kim
What a beautiful post. Happy anniversary to you!
She has changed so much through these years Shana. She is a beautiful child not only physically but inwardly. I wish you many happy years sweet Sophie, with your wonderful family.
Shana, What a precious post for your daughter to always have!!! You can tell how much you love her and feel the thankfulness in your tone in this letter to her. You are a blessed family!!
Congratulations on 3 years together as a family!!
God bless!
Debbie
Sophie is prettier by the day! I just love these photos so much!
Your bullet points paint such a fun picture of Miss SLR. I cracked up when I read the one about 'sharing' popsicles with little brother, Ollie. How very generous of her! I just love her so much!
You know, you met your baby girl just a day or two before we saw our baby's pic for the first time. We got our referral for Gwen on 7/28. I'm still stunned that it's been only 3 years. But in many ways, it seems like forever. I can't remember life before her.
I just peeked at your Kitten Within blog and saw the ultrasound pics. Wow, those things sure are amazing! You're sooo close now. I can't wait to see S and O's little baby sister when she makes her grand appearance!
Lots of love from our home to yours ---
Donna
Our blog: Double Happiness!
Happy 3year anniversary to you all! Sophie Lu is such a precious little girl, so gorgeous in all ways. As is her mommy. The love shines through your words...it really moves me Shana. How lucky it was that you found each other...by the light of the moon...
Shana, that was just beautiful....almost as beautiful as Sophie Lu! The photos are beautiful!
Congrats on your anniversary!
Norah
How beautiful!!
Oh my gosh, happy anniversary to you all! I can't believe I have been reading your blog for 3 years! Wow time flies! What a joy it has been to watch your sweet Sophie and your entire family grow!
Jenny V
Happy 3 Years Together!!!
Michael, Shana, Sophie Lu and Ollie - may you all continue to be blessed, especially when the newest addition arrives!
Ashley
If you ever find the time in your busy days to tell me about the pictures you just took, I would be so happy. I just want to know how you get the blurry background- is that Photoshop or a setting on your camera? If it's a setting, what do you use? Of course your subject (Sophie Lu)is so beautiful, any picture of her is gorgeous! Yay for three years! We're about to celebrate two years with our daughter.
d.pults@excite.com
Shana,
What a great post and I like your idea of writing a letter like this. Sophie will cherish it!
Happy family day!
Your photos of her are stunning!! Great job.
Hope you are feeling well.
xoxo Michele
How beautifully written. you are the best mom, Shana.
Love reading your post, Sophie Lu and Ollie and soon to be the kitten is lucky to have you both as parents.
That was beautiful Shanna! I still remember reading your "gotcha moments"... it was fun and magical to me as I had just become LID.... Thank you for shaing such warm and tender memories and wishing you another love filled year!
Lisa :)
Shana,
You have written such beautiful words and feelings about your treasure that I'm crying....
I'm sure that your little Sophie is one of the most beautiful girls I've ever seen...
A very big huge...You're a strong woman¡¡¡¡¡¡
Belén.
What sweetness! What a wonderful 3 years it has been. So happy for you guys. Sophie and Ollie are just the sweetest and I love to read their sweet stories. Thank you for sharing so much of your lives with us. The pictures with the umbrella are gorgeous Shana. Sending love to you all.
Hugs,
Jonni
Beautiful, beautiful photography!!! Bravo!
How in the world do you choose which ones to enlarge and frame??!!
Blessings!
What an amazing, amazing post. Your blog is fabulous, and inspiring. You remind me of my mother, and I can think of no higher compliment.
My best wishes to you and your family.
Helene Kett (Edinburgh, Scotland)
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Did I somehow miss these or did you add some things here?
You know you have a little Joan Chen on your hands here- what's a Mom to do when she grows up!?
Gorgeous.
K.x
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